Thursday, December 30, 2010

Tell Me Your Deepest Thoughts in 25 Characters or Less

There is really no excuse for this great cessation of writing. All of my friends who met on Y360 know how prolific we were and how it suddenly stopped when they pulled the plug. There are some exceptions, but we don’t write they way we used to just a few years ago.

We regrouped on Facebook, happy to come together again… but we didn’t write. No poignant stories of friends and family, no poetry, no classic rants, no travel adventures, no humorous stories… just status updates about the most mundane aspects of day to day living. It’s not because Facebook doesn’t provide vehicles for writing. Networked Blogs will link and post to Facebook. The Notes section allows you to write, include pictures, and allow for comments, just like 360. But still, there is very little of that.

We all have reasons for not writing anymore but have all our lives really changed all that much in the past few years? Perhaps… but I suspect another reason. Y360 was centered on the blog. It was a writer’s forum that grew to allow picture galleries, status updates, and other things that would look familiar to the casual Facebook user... but it was always about the writing. Facebook, on the other hand, is not. It is becoming more of a business network tool than a place for meaningful social discourse. It encourages sound bites rather than stories, mundane rather than meaningful. Tell me your deepest thoughts in 25 characters or less but remember, your boss is watching. So are your relatives, coworkers, business contacts, prospective employers… and the people of Facebook.

I used to write frequently before 360. My writing exploded when I gathered friends there who were (and are) likeminded. I can still write and I can post to Facebook… but it has to be guarded, edited. I cannot do that.

Any suggestions? Remember before you answer, the eyes of the world are watching.

11 comments:

John (from Iowa, of course!) said...

I have no suggestion. All I know is that I miss your writing. I check this blog almost daily, hoping, praying, even pleading (to myself, mostly, but occasionally to you) for a new posting.

I'm going to be very selfish here - please blog more often - if for no other reason other than for those of us who don't do Facebook.

Please? Ok, I know, I'm pleading here . . .

And, this is more than 25 characters, too.

Thom said...

There is an easy solution, John. I just don't have to post to Facebook. It is sad that I cannot use a network that has been cultivated over five years, but I understand the reality of the situation. I have to remember that I am writing for myself - not for an audience.

Anonymous said...

You hit the nail Thom, your writing is for yourself. Find a comfortable place to post and then do it (for you).

Thom said...

Thanks, Jude. I think that for now, I will just concentrate on getting back my writing skills, then find a place to post... perhaps here.

I find it interesting that other than your "like" on FB, there are no comments or likes... but I can literally post the weather and get 16 comments. It really is short attention span theatre...

joetalk said...

I miss you writing for you, and allowing us to read it. Just let me know where you wander too . . .

Thom said...

Thanks, JJ. Strangely, through this one post, I feel more connected than from the years on Facebook. I am getting inspired...

Galen said...

I miss your writing, too, Thom. I should not let myself get so distracted by FB. In my mind I have several blog posts percolating, but have I sat down to write them? 360 was a rare forum: focused on the blog, yet also a social network, so you felt like you were sharing your writing and thoughts with a circle of friends. FB has minimal thought, Blogger has minimal connection with friends. But Joe Joe put it best: write for yourself and allow us to read. Write on, my friend!

Thom said...

I also have several things I have been wanting to write, Galen. It is not so much the distraction of FB that keeps me from writing, but the understanding that I can't post most of my thoughts there. It seeems clear that we can never recreate 360 or anything close to it. But it also seeems that our longing for something greater than what we have keeps some of us going. I just need to look forward and write on.

Claire Uncorked said...

Aw, Thom...I guess that's one reason I don't write very often anymore. Well, that & laziness. At any rate, I've always loved what you write, so I hate to lose that - I hope you keep it up somewhere, somehow.

But in the meantime, we have less than 2 months until our reunion!

Thom said...

I'll drink to that... and I'm sure I will!

Claire Uncorked said...

Drinking? With me? What, are you crazy????